Enough Already! 15 Things About she be crying every single night We’re Tired of Hearing
blog Oct 18, 2022
It is so easy to take the blame for our unhappiness: “Yes, I’ve done bad things.” “Yes, I’ve been hurt.” “Yes, I’ve been angry.” “Yes, I’ve failed.
But the fact of the matter is, no matter how much we feel we’ve failed, we can always pick ourselves up and do it over again. We can also take a page from the Bible and be a “good” person. It doesn’t matter if our failures were bad, they are still failures. They are merely failures that we feel we can fix and then move on to the next task.
I have to admit I totally forgot the Bible verse that I read last night, but it goes something like this: “For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the earth” (Malachi 3:6). This means that we can never truly be happy, never truly be free from anxiety, worry, and stress, but we can always pick ourselves up and do it again.
The Bible says that we should look to the Lord every now and then, but I think the Lord would agree we can always look to ourselves more than he can. If we don’t constantly seek him, we miss out on a lot of opportunities. If we don’t constantly ask him for advice, we don’t get any. If we don’t constantly look to him for help, we don’t get any. If we don’t constantly ask for his help, we don’t get any.
I think we all need reminders that if we ask for help, we don’t get any. I know I need to make sure I ask for help often. I know I need to make sure I stay motivated to do it. But I think it’s important enough to have as a reminder that if we ask for help, it doesn’t come back.
It’s probably not a coincidence that he asks for help, and it’s probably for a reason. He’s trying to get things done, and he wants everyone else to be doing the same. But that doesn’t mean we should expect he’ll be doing our work for us when we ask for help. If we don’t ask for help, we can’t expect him to.
Its like a big pain in the ass for some people to ask for help. We are being asked to be good and we are not.
It’s also important to remember that when we don’t ask for help, it doesn’t mean he’s not trying to help us, it just means we don’t know that he’s trying to help us. And when we do ask for help, it means we know that he’s trying to help us and we are being asked to ask for help. But we have to ask for help.
To make a long story short, I have had several women (many of whom I am close with) tell me that they feel they are being “hurt” when they don’t receive any answers to their questions. This comes from the same place where I would ask for help, because I just dont know why I should be asking for help.
I remember when I first had a job, I would tell people to ask for help when I had a problem, and it was not at all what was expected of me. I remember it hurt when I got no help, because I had no clue why I was asking people to help me. But because I was a very good person, I would just ask people to help me because I didnt know why they were helping me.