How to Solve Issues With my girlfriend is grieving and pushing me away
blog Oct 18, 2022
I am not sure how she feels but I do believe that she is grieving for the loss of a relationship. She is pushing me away because she no longer wants to spend as much time with me because the relationship has ended. She has been spending more time with her friends and family but I want to spend more time alone.
It’s understandable that she wants to keep the relationship alive for some time because it’s her life, and even if she is grieving for the loss of a relationship, she still has a life and even if she wants to keep the relationship alive, she still has a life.
This is a common thing and one that can be a bit painful. Its hard to admit sometimes because we feel like we’re the only ones who are experiencing this and it can be overwhelming. But honestly, if you’re really concerned about your relationship, its not something you have to deal with on a weekly basis. It’s something you can deal with every day if you’re really honest with yourself.
It can be heartbreaking, and I can relate to this. I remember a time in my life where I was so depressed, almost all I wanted to do was just go home, get a drink and a good cry, and take a day or two to recover from what I had experienced. I felt completely alone and as if I was drowning in my own self-pity and despair.
It’s true. My girlfriend is grieving me and pushing me away. I know this because she has been in my room talking to me since the night I left the house. She’s been trying to apologize and tell me how much she cares about me over these last two weeks, but I’m just not there. I’ve taken a few days after I go home for her to get out of my room and talk to her, but she’s not.
I’ve been sitting on the couch for about a week trying to figure out what to say to her to get her to talk to me again. I know that she is upset and that she is pushing me away, but I just don’t know what to say to her. Ive tried everything: Ive been calling her, texting her, sending her e-mails, sheesh. Nothing seems to work.
Here’s my question to you: have you ever been that guy who sat on the couch for a few weeks, didn’t talk to his girlfriend, and then couldn’t figure out what to do? Or, have you ever been that guy who just sits there looking at the TV and not caring what happens to his girlfriend? Well guess what? We’ve both been that guy.
I have to make sure I don’t sound like a dick. I’m actually here to help you guys solve your problems. I’m going to help you move forward. So I’m going to give you some advice. Don’t just talk to your girlfriend. Talk to her first (or at least before the fact).
We know that talking to your girlfriend or your wife or significant other can be difficult. And I say this with love and respect. You should try it. But talk to them before you feel the need to talk. Otherwise, you might just feel like you’re talking to your girlfriend when you are really just talking to yourself.
Talking to your girlfriend can be hard and awkward. But if you talk to her before you feel like you need to talk, your chances are better that your talking to her on her own terms and not just your own. And yes, it can be awkward and feel a bit like youre talking to yourself. But the more you practice talking to her before you need to talk, the less awkward your communication will feel.